Tuesday, August 11, 2009

My chains are broken

Dear Carissa,
I wish you could see yourself for who you really are and not whats staring back at you from the mirror. The person inside you is worth so much more than whats in your mind. Yes, everyone has insecurities. Even the most gorgeous pop star will have something bad to say about her appearance, so why be like everyone else and ridicule yourself?
If you don't love yourself, then who will?
So what if you wear dorky glasses and have curves? Celebrate your differences! Maybe you could do something about that glasses but beneath that plastic frame, is the most gorgeous eyes I've ever gazed at. Your sister may be blessed with prettier features than you but can she write a beautiful, heart-warming and inspiring story like you do? Does she have the gift of patience and vast knowledge like you? No! A person is worth so much more than her looks. Its her character and confidence that shines brighter than her looks- and thats the real definition of true beauty.
See inside yourself and use your talents and gifts for the Higher calling God has placed in you. A girl like you can be a shining light to many other people out there. Let your testimony as a Christian shine bright through your life and the way you carry yourself. Love yourself as how God created you to be. You are complete in His sight.
Girl, there may be times that you'll trash yourself with heartbreaking comments because you aren't as beautiful as others, but remember Proverbs 31:30. The total woman who fears God will be praised. Remember that. Don't give up on yourself! Push and strive harder to reach your dreams. Remember, when the going gets tough, the tough gets going.
Don't be afraid to shine. When you wear something that looks FAB on you, DO NOT TAKE IT OFF!! Read that phrase again. Why make yourself look like trash when you can shine?
Don't be afraid to work that outfit. Be confident and wear it like you own the world. Believe it or not, your confidence will shine so bright that it will overpower the dress.
Finally, be who you are. Don't change yourself to be like everyone else. So what if everybody loves MTV and rap music but you don't? Be true to yourself. If you hate Korean food, then so be it! Don't eat it and pretend that you love it just because everyone does. Pursue your interests and hobbies with a burning passion. When you know that you're trapped in a tricky situation, stand up and speak up for what is right. People will respect you for your principles and beliefs, not the latest Converse on your feet or the most beautiful bracellet on your wrist.
Remember Taylor Swift's words " You are lucky enough to be different from everyone else...don't change to be the same". Remember that you're beautiful, smart, strong, and confident! And that you belong to the Big Boss upstairs. Nothing can separate you from Him. Girl, I'll always LOVE YOU!!!
Shine, my star. Shine ON!

Carissa Morais :D

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